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對話 | 爱,性,权力?Love, Sex, Power?

『我不知道我是不是愛上他了?』- 寒蟬效應,不能說的夏天
關於性,我們有很多可以探討: 時間,地點,人物,情願與強制,施虐與受虐,支配與臣服。
關於愛,我們永遠無法徹底看透:場合,感受,向往,許多種激素,言不盡的依賴,斯德哥爾摩綜合征。
若下壹個詞是『權力』,妳會把它放在哪裏?
壹種人之間的關系,因性而始,是否能以愛而收尾?
壹種人之間有權力作用的關系,若從性開始,也能以愛的方式結尾麽?
性與愛,是磁帶的AB面,還是單行的長街?他們與權力,又有什麽微妙的制衡?

萬物復蘇的三月,在老地方,『聽壹聽妳自己心裏面的聲音,它會告訴妳,妳想要什麽』。
不見不散。

【活動形式】
活動將以小組討論+大組討論的形式進行。你不需要準備任何發言,我們鼓勵你將自己的經歷和對「華人」這一概念的思考結合起來,與大家在相互尊重的基礎上交流想法。你可以使用你最熟悉的語言(國/普、粵、英)進行分享,我們將提供翻譯。兩組討論之間將有茶敘時間。

【話題討論版】
討論版鏈接 https://padlet.com/ubcdialogue/8gcfxa5ys4gx
大家可以提前把自己的看法和話題相關內容分享到這個討論版上。討論版采取匿名形式,但希望大家秉持“傾聽,分享,尊重”的理念,建立一個和諧舒適的討論平臺。討論版會一直開放到活動結束後的三天,大組討論時沒有機會分享自己觀點的朋友們,可以在上面繼續發聲! 雙擊背景版任意地方即可發帖。
聲明:此討論版內容全部由個別用戶自行添加,不代表本社團立場。

【關於對話】
UBC對話成立於2014年,是一個完全由學生主導的社團。無論你是來自陸、港、澳、臺、加、東南亞或是其他國家或地區,也無論你的身份認同為何,只要你對分享或傾聽有關「華人」話題的討論有興趣,我們都歡迎你來參與我們的活動,並在活動中和來自不同背景的朋友建立友誼,擦出思想的火花。

對話主頁:https://www.facebook.com/ubcdialogue

“I’m not sure, is it love, or is it something else?”
Sex, could be a matter of timing, location, people. Willing and forced, sadomasochism, dominance and submission.
Love, might be more complicated: occasions, feelings, longing for companionship, many kinds of hormones, many types of dependence, Stockholm Syndrome.
Among those words and categories, where do you see *power*?
Can we be slaves to chemistry?
Or, does chemistry make us slaves?
Sex and love, are they the AB sides to a cassette, or parallel paths to joy? And what if we add a flavor of power into them?

This awakening March, along with many others back to life and arousal, “listen to your heart, as it will direct you the path.”
See you there, with or without any chemistry between us. *The event is FREE and light refreshments will be provided.
**We encourage you to use the language you are most comfortable with. We will provide translation in the event.

[Discussion Padlet]
Link to discussion forum: https://padlet.com/ubcdialogue/8gcfxa5ys4gx
Here, you can share your views and/or any relevant contents in advance. All the posts are on condition of anonymity, but we advise you to bear in mind the idea of “Listen, Share, and Respect”, to create a comfortable discussion platform for all. The forum will remain open until three days after the event. For those who may not have chances to share your thoughts during the big-group discussion, we encourage you to do so on the forum. There is no small voice in changing the world!

[About UBC Hua Dialogue]
Established in 2014, UBC Hua Dialogue is a student-led platform for discussions of social, cultural and political issues related to the Hua-communities. Our value is “listen, share, respect” and we welcome students of all background and identities to join us.

Our Facebook page: https://www.facebook.com/ubcdialogue

Please PM us on Facebook or contact ubcdialogue@gmail.com for any questions or comments.

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